Make up your prayers.

by lauren in IN Islam

You Must Make up Every Single Prayer You Have Ever Missed 

ALL Four Schools Ijmaa’ 

I’m not posting this to say that I follow this opinion, necessarily, but I will say  it is something I’d like to look into more AND it is something that is very, very serious - especially for those people who have been Muslim their whole life but maybe only have been a “practicing Muslim” for X number of years.

Read this with an open mind:

 http://talk.islamicnetwork.com/showthread.php?t=11863

And remember that the first thing you will be asked about when you stand before your Lord will be your salah. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) guide us and forgive us all. Ameen.

Thanksgiving.

by lauren in IN Islam

Our beloved Nabi, sallahu ‘alayhi wa salaam, taught us that the one who is not thankful to the people, is not thankful to Allah.

This should be a warning and reminder for us all. For who among us would like to be among those people who are not thankful to Allah, subhanahu wa ta’ala, who is our Creator and Sustainer and Helper? So in order not to be among those people, we must remain not only thankful to our Creator, but also as our Nabi taught us, we must be thankful to the people around us who have been put in our lives by Allah.

Unlike the non-Muslims, we don’t need one day of the year to thank family and friends for everything they do for us. Rather, Thanksgiving for the believer should be every day!

We know that those deeds that are most beloved to Allah are those that are done consistently. How though, can we make this attitude a part of our lives on a consistent basis, and not just think of it this week because it is Thanksgiving week and we are hearing about it all of the time? A good way to start would be by making a list each week of all of the things and people you are thankful for in your life. Remember to thank Allah and make good du’aa for those people who you are thankful for.

I have many things and people  to be thankful for in the past few weeks especially and it has been on my heart that there are so many people I need to thank and remember and make good du’aa for, so I’ll start…

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Lesson 4 Notes - The Prayer

by lauren in Uncategorized

 From Al-Risala al-Jami’ah

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Today.

by lauren in Children

Musa has a big day ahead of him today.

They started trying to feed him about four (or five? - the days are all blurring together) days ago, but he wasn’t digesting it so they gave him a rest. Now he’s breathing more on his own and they’re going to try it again. It’s so important for his progress that he is able to take the feeds. Please, please make a lot of extra du’aa for him today and in the next couple days. The doctor told me today is a critical day to a smooth road home for him, inshaaAllah. They’re also going to be doing an ultrasound of his brain to check for any bleeding of the brain (something that is pretty common in premature babies).

May Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala help him, protect him, and raise him as a healthy and righteous Muslim.

Musa

by lauren in Children

So after a very scary night and morning, I was taken to IU Med Center for an emergency c-section.

Musa was born on October 31st at 28 weeks weighing in at 2 lbs 12 oz.

Although his doctors are very optimistic that he will grow to be a healthy boy, he has a long road ahead of him. Please keep him in your du’aas.

What it means to be a muslim.

by lauren in Uncategorized

Okay, I had heard people allude to this before, but I never read the article until today. My jaw dropped to the ground. Read the article for yourself, talking about this Muslim liberal’s encounter with Abu Ammar Yasir Qadhi, hafidhullah.

http://www.csmonitor.com/2006/0816/p20s01-lire.html

Du’aa request.

by lauren in Children

By the way, for those of you that don’t know, I’ve been having a killer pregnancy.

The first three months I could barely get my head out of the toilet. My poor husband, before he left, was eating fast food and frozen pizza all the time because I was physically unable to cook - and often would get carsick. And yes, I literally actually got sick in the car once while my husband was driving. May Allah reward him, ameen.

Then after that settled down, I had to go to the hospital in St. Louis because I was having severe abdominal pain. I was in the hospital two days. 

After that,  I’ve had this blood pressure thing - my doctor was extremely worried I was developing preeclampsia. If you don’t know what that is, it’s a serious and potentially fatal illness (for both child AND mother) that can develop in pregnancy. At my last appointment, I seemed to be doing better. InshaaAllah. I really attribute it to the fact that my husband made ‘umrah in the last ten days of Ramadan and was making du’aa for my and the baby’s health. As the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: To perform ‘umrah in Ramadan is like performing hajj with me.

And now, subhaanAllah, I have something else happening. I don’t know what, seriously. I’ve developed severe back and abdominal pain again. I’m like usually a really private person and don’t let people see me cry (except my husband) but I’ve been with my parents and they have seen me crying and screaming in pain. It’s been on and off this whole week. It’s so weird. After consultation, it seems that it’s not something serious, however, it’s extremely painful. I woke up this morning with the pain again. I have had to take a couple of pain pills in the last few days which were perscribed to me when I went to the hospital the last time with the severe abdominal pain. Alhumdulilah, they at least help me be able to sleep.

 But ya, I’m in a lot of pain. Please make du’aa for my health and for my baby’s health. Jazakumallah khair.

Knowledge is power.

by lauren in Education

A sister posted up some comments in terms of studying ‘aqeedah and so forth, and it got me thinking. By the way, I don’t personally know this sister, so please don’t take this as a personal attack or anything.

Respectfully, I disagree. I tend to agree with the statement ‘knowledge is power’. Because think of it like this, if I just make taqleed of say, Abu Ammar Yasir Qadhi in my aqeedah, I could do that. But I’m doing that blindly, assuming that everything he says is correct and not knowing the points of views of other scholars or groups.

So when I meet someone of a different belief, and that person questions my ‘aqeedah and tries to bring me their arguments, I will either:
a) argue with them without knowledge
b) be totally confused
or
c) become shaky in my beliefs

Obviously, option c is the thing we should all be worried about. We don’t want to be shaky in our beliefs, but we want to be firm in our beliefs. So if I follow the opinions of Abu Ammar Yasir Qadhi, yet I also know the arguments of the opposition and know why they say what they say, and why I believe (or know) that they’re wrong, my own ‘aqeedah will be much stronger and no one will be able to come along and shake my faith. And I can go around making takfeer of people (hey, I did say I like to be harsh sometimes). That is a huge benefit.

I do agree that people should have some level of basic knowledge before they delve into these issues. And I also feel that it’s better if they have a teacher to study under who can answer their questions when they arise.

But in general, I think to say researching these issues causes people to easily lose their Islam, is a little dramatic. If anything, I think it’s the opposite. Since I started reading some of the research of both sides on ‘aqeedah, honestly, I have felt that my own beliefs have become stronger.

But, if all else fails and I become a lost soul who starts to hold beliefs that cause people to call me a mushrik too, don’t worry about me inshallah. My husband’s a student at the U of Madinah. When he finishes I can bask in his newfound salafiness and get whipped right back into my salafi state.

A Beautiful Disagreement.

by lauren in Education

A sister, jazakellah khair, posted this on IN and I thought it was a beautiful reminder:

Yunus as-Sadafi’ said: I have never seen a wiser man than ash-Sha’fi, I was arguing with him one day about an issue and I left him. One day, he met me, held my hand and said:
‘Cannot we be brothers, even if we disagree about something?’

Adh-dhahabi “Siyar a’alaam an-Nubalaa’” 10/16

Pillars of Islam and Belief in Allah

by lauren in Uncategorized

For those that don’t know, yes, it’s true. I’ve become a muqalid. At least for the time being. I chose Shafi’ee fiqh because of resources as well as feeling the most comfortable with its usool. I’ll be posting a series of things on Shaf’iee fiqh inshaaAllah from a course I’m taking. It of course, will start out simply. Continue Reading »